What I Learned From Travelling Solo for the First Time

I had just landed in Dublin, Ireland—my first-ever solo trip. My hostel check-in wasn’t until later in the day, so I had a whole morning free with nothing planned. No schedule, no one to wait on—just me, my backpack, and a curious heart ready to wander.

I took this trip because I wanted to see what it felt like to do something completely on my own. I wanted to push myself, try something new, and see if I could handle the unknown without a set plan.

Deep down, I was hoping this adventure would teach me something—not just about a new place, but about myself. And honestly? It did. The lessons started the moment I stepped onto the streets of Dublin.

Lesson 1: Confidence Grows When You Step Out of Your Comfort Zone

Before heading to Dublin, I didn’t have a strict plan—just a handful of saved TikToks and some places I was curious about. I grabbed a quick breakfast, took a deep breath, and let my feet lead the way.

I wandered through Trinity College, passed by the famous Library and the Book of Kells (no time, maybe next time!), and just kept going. Even with jet lag, I packed a full day—St. Patrick’s Cathedral, museums, Temple Bar, and more. I made all the calls myself and figured things out as I went.

That’s when it hit me: I can do this. I didn’t need everything planned out. I just needed to trust myself, take the first step, and enjoy the ride.

Lesson 2: You Learn to Trust Your Own Instincts

Traveling solo means you call the shots. No one else to double-check plans or point the way. At first, that felt a little scary—but soon, it felt like freedom.

Sometimes I’d stop on a random street corner, unsure of what to do next. I’d pause, breathe, and go with what felt right. No pressure. No overthinking.

Things didn’t always go smoothly—like when a spot was closed or I was starving and couldn’t find a seat anywhere—but I made it work. Every choice built up my trust in myself.

Lesson 3: Freedom Feels Empowering

One of the best parts of solo travel? Total freedom. I could take breaks, change plans, or skip something without worrying about anyone else.

Some days were packed with exploring. Other times, I just sat in a café, people-watching and soaking it all in. I didn’t have to rush. I could move at my own pace.

That freedom helped me discover the kind of traveler I really am—curious, easygoing, and someone who enjoys both quiet moments and city adventures.

Lesson 4: Being Alone Doesn’t Mean Being Lonely

Before the trip, I worried I might feel lonely. But once I got there, that feeling faded fast.

I found little moments of connection—chatting with baristas, asking locals for tips, or just smiling at fellow travelers. Dublin is such a friendly place—it was easy to feel welcome.

But honestly? I liked being alone. I enjoyed the quiet, the space, and the chance to think. I realized that being alone can actually feel peaceful, not empty.

Lesson 5: Gratefulness for Home and the People in Your Life

As much as I loved my solo adventure, being away reminded me how lucky I am at home.

I missed laughing with friends, homemade snacks, and even my bed. Little things I usually overlook suddenly felt special again.

I came back with a clearer mind and a grateful heart—ready to keep some of the calm I found in Dublin, and with a fresh view of what really matters to me.

A trip that changed me

Going to Dublin on my own wasn’t just a fun trip—it honestly shifted how I see myself and the world around me. I came back feeling braver, more independent, and proud of how I handled each moment, even the unexpected ones. I realized I can trust myself more than I thought. I can figure things out. And I actually enjoy hanging out with myself.

Would I do it again? Oh, for sure. I’m already dreaming about where to go next. There’s something special about exploring a new place solo—it feels more personal, more real, and totally freeing.

If a solo trip has ever crossed your mind, here’s your sign: go for it. You don’t need a big plan. Just start small, follow what excites you, and stay open to whatever comes your way. You’ll be surprised by how much you’ll grow—and how much fun you’ll have doing it.

Solo travel isn’t really about being alone. It’s about realizing you’re already enough—just as you are.

P.S. If you're curious and want to hear more, I put together a short e-book about my solo travel adventure! It’s full of tips, little stories, and inspiration if you’re thinking of planning your own. You can grab it in my shop if you’d like to check it out.